The Twenty Minute Day

Life is busy, and then it is not.

This message is short and sweet – no one will probably appreciate your calls more. Your efforts to stay connected.

Whether it is about creating new memories or reliving old ones, connecting with your grandparents can be so important.

There are a multitude of DNA sites out there that are making a ton of money off of people who want to know where they come from. What better way to find out than by talking to someone who was there.

Take the time to hear the stories. Appreciate how much times have changed or reveal in how your grandparents met. There is no limit to the topics that can be covered.

You can also take the time to help them document their story. Leave a recorded history for the next generation.

The best thing is that you can find time for this priceless connection in so many parts of your day. During your commute, while you are making dinner, or when you are just hanging about.

It should never feel like a challenge but rather an enhancement to any day of the week. If you haven’t connected with them in awhile here are some quick conversation starters to get you going:

Hi Grandma/Grandpa (or whatever personal name you have for them)

• I was flipping through some old family pictures and realized how much I missed talking with you
• I wanted to cook that recipe you are so famous for. Can you walk me through the directions
• I know your birthday is coming up and wanted to see what you wanted?
• The weather has been pretty bad lately, I wanted to see if I could help run any errands for you?

The opportunities to connect are endless.

Take them while you both can still make the time.